Last year I began a new blog called 'The Engineering Hopkinsons'.
In 1848 she married John Hopkinson, millwright and engineer of Manchester, and they had a large family. Three of their four sons were engineers:
John Hopkinson FRS was a noted physicist, electrical engineer and professor who died untimely with three of his children in a climbing accident in the Alps.
Edward Hopkinson, engineer and MP, designed the first City & South London Railway's electric locomotives
Charles Hopkinson was a consulting engineer. With his nephew Bertram Hopkinson and Ernest Talbot, they worked on the electrification of the Newcastle upon Tyne and Leeds tramway systems
Sir Alfred Hopkinson, John and Alice's second son, was the only one to follow the arts rather than the sciences. He was a lawyer, academic and MP
Albert Hopkinson, the youngest son, was a general practitioner and influential teacher of anatomy.
Introduction
On Monday 7 February 1848, four days before his 24th birthday, a young engineer called John Hopkinson wrote his first and only letter of proposal of marriage
My dear Miss Dewhirst,
I wish to ask you one question, one which I have never proposed to any other, soliciting for it a patient consideration, because your answer may possibly affect your own happiness, and is to me an object of deepest concern. Most respectfully yet most anxiously I ask, Will you be mine?
He had come to know Alice Dewhurst – in his anxiety, he misspells her surname in his carefully written letter – when she came to Manchester on visits to her married sister Ellen. From the start he had been attracted by her "intelligence, unaffected piety, and genuine worth." Admiration and esteem had become love, "deep and fervent." He had never spoken to her about it because, as an apprentice and then an employee of Messrs Wren & Bennett, Millwrights & Engineers, he wasn't in a position to look after a wife. Now he was a partner in the firm. Casting aside formality, he wrote
I do love you. I am yours devotedly. Dearest let me call you my Alice and the future shall bear witness to the fervency of my gratitude.
His proposal wasn't made lightly – deep feelings, long thought and prayer lay behind it. His closing words were
In tendering to you my warmest affections and in soliciting a return I have taken council of my own heart, but not less have I sought direction from God. To His guidance I commend you, confident that in His hands the result will be right even though it should blast my most fondly cherished hopes – for He is wiser than men.
Ever am IYours very sincerelyJohn Hopkinson
That Friday, on his birthday, he visited her at her parents' home in Skipton and they were engaged. They were married seven months later in the Zion Chapel in Skipton. They remained a devoted, loving couple until John's death in 1902.